Wednesday 1 August 2012

Anxiety,Tensions,dialemmas,contradictions:a cup of tea or puff of cigarettes???

Hi Everybody,

  All the people in the world might have experienced anxieties,tensions in his/her life.The growing anxieties in our life often kill the energetic waves of our lives.Everybody whether it is Manmohan singh,Barack obama or Ban ki moon might have experienced when it comes to policy dialemmas in developed countries and policy paralysis in developing countries.A mother in the kitchen feels the heat when the food is not cooked properly and her dissatisfications lead to anxieties.A honey bee experiences pain when disturbed by other or not being able to get the plentiful of nectar.When there is power shortage your doors get jammed,you struck in traffic and  you are not able to make it for the important appointments,interviews,exams etc.We all feel tensed.When there is expectations  from someone and somebody fails in advesities there are anxities.

  The tensions often occur when the desired expectations does not meet the actual needs and there do exist a wide gap between the expectations and the needs.In developing countries like India the capabilities do not meet the actual career profession.A boy/girl is often told to become doctor,engineer,lawyer,I.A.S. etc a traditional profession though the boy's or girl's liking may be avaiation,fashion,media etc.This creates the capabilties gap of aspirations which creates the mental dogmas and a student is doomed to fail when he/she mars his/her aspirations and dreams.Dreams take a backseat often leads to tensions.



 Someone is blessed with skills but does not have resources.Some blessed with resources but do not have skills.Study shows that the four major religions Hinduism,islam,buddhism,confucianism blessed with resources but do not have killer instincts or skills to become capitalists.Judaism had skills but was lacking resources to become capitalists.Only calvinists of protestant religions had both resources and skills to become capitalists.You can also become capitalists by living simple life,have the re-investment habits and by following the ethics of life.
There are simple solutions to overcome anxieites and tensions in anybody's life.Firstly believe in yourself by self motivation and confidence.Secondly be with the time.Thirdly forget about the things which you can't control.Suppose you struck in traffic and with power shortage you are struck in the metro.You can't do much in such scenarios.Even the country can't do much in the case of global melt  down,global economic crisis,global rise in temperatures etc and the decisions often regulated by other factors and decisions of other countries.Collective conciousness play an important role than the individual consciosness in these situations.If you are in bus,metroetc be with the bus or metro if it is getting late.Feel happy rather than being sad and then only alternative arrangements click your minds immediately.Fourthly remove the aspirations and capilities gap from your inner self to fulfill your dreams.Fifthly leave the bad habits as anybody even your friends can take advantage of your situations and can make you tensed.Start everyday as afresh,take shower,bathe,morning walk daily.listen to light music daily in the morning.Isn't that you feel refreshing after morning bath and walk??



 Lastly but not the least live in this worldly affairs as the luck of all is predetermined and predestined and only intelligent hard work can make a difference rather than living in fool's paradise.Stretch your hands,raise your heads towards the limitless sky feel the sky to push gush of air in the form tensions from you,forget the fears from within you,meditate your minds,remember your diety,open your mouth to drink cup of tea and put aloof the smoky and puffy cigarettes in the form of tensions from within you then only you will be able to see performence report of yours in the mirror of yourself and can gauge what you can achieve and what you want to become tomorrow:Tension free,lovelable and sociable man ,dream achiever and a game changer person.





Amit Kumar,
Your Motivator


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